Thursday, November 2, 2023

Life is Precious:

 


 I think almost everyone agrees that life is precious. We all treasure our relationships with our family, our friends, and our heritage. We all have goals we’d like to achieve, and heroes we’d like to emulate. The entertainment industry is supported by empathy for the characters in its dramas, and the advertising industry by aspiration for a certain life style. We all feel sympathy for those in need or suffering, and the death of a loved one, even when expected or “natural” is a tragic loss. Most countries have outlawed the death penalty, even for murderers.

 

The accidental death of my mother’s oldest brother tore her family apart, and, one way or another colored their lives thereafter. Another of her brothers decided to run for the state legislature when he was barely old enough to vote, and became a prominent politician for the next 20 years, helping our family with jobs and inspiration during the Great Depression.

 

You never know how someone, no matter how seemingly insignificant, will affect your life. We have some friends whose daughter has severe cerebral palsy. Her doctors told them she wouldn’t live beyond infancy, but she’s in her 50’s now and is an important part of their lives. She goes everywhere with them. All their friends accept her as part of the family. It would be devastating if they lost her.

 

One of the lessons I learned in Vietnam is that war turns reverence for life on its head, especially the lives of “the enemy,” which in Vietnam was practically everyone. I was shocked when I first heard the Vietnamese referred to as “gooks,” or “dinks.” Vietnamese taken to the hospital were sometimes dropped off their stretchers “accidentally,” and even dropped out of helicopters to avoid taking them to the hospital. There was one ward at the main hospital reserved for Vietnamese. I went there one night and mentioned to the nurse that many of them were groaning in pain. Her response was “They just want attention. They don’t feel pain like we do.”  

 

I used to attend the commanding general’s briefing every Friday morning. Every unit in the division, battalion and above, was represented by an officer. There were several generals, but mostly colonels and lieutenant colonels, the men responsible for the strategy of the war, and the lives of the thousands of men under their command. I was responsible for reporting the health statistics: how many cases of malaria, hepatitis, plague, trench foot. How many amputations. How many men had to be evacuated for higher level care, or sent home.

 

What shocked me was the atmosphere of the meetings. What everyone was interested in was the “body count.” It was like they were discussing a ball game. “How many gooks did you kill this week? We got 20 but lost 5.” To these men, lives were just statistics, even the lives of their own men. 

 

It strikes me that our leaders view the current wars the same. Hamas killed 1400 Israelis, and the Palestinian body count is currently estimated at 8500. I don’t know what the latest numbers are for Ukrainians and Russians. What justifies this slaughter, this total disregard for the value of life? Netanyahu says his aim is revenge, and Putin wants to be another Peter the Great. I guess Peter the Great killed a lot of people too. As for Hamas, I’ve never understood terrorists, but they share the same disregard for life. It’s worth sacrificing thousands for what? Independence for Gaza? Destruction of Israel? Glory?

 

In Vietnam the goal was “attrition,” which, I have learned, means destroying the enemy’s resources so they can no longer fight. Vietnam’s resources were their rice fields, and their people, because their people supported the revolution. So winning meant killing all the people, so there’s no one left to fight. I’ve heard Putin’s strategy also described as attrition, and from the sound of Netanyahu’s statements, he’s aiming for the same thing.

 

Where’s the reverence for life in all this? How would the fatalities vote if they could be resurrected for a referendum? When I was in Vietnam I listened to a speech by the president, in which he said, “I don’t want to be the first president to lose a war.” We were fighting and dying so he could save face?

 

Somehow those who have died and are about to die should have a say in the decisions our leaders make about war.

 

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